you want a therapist who can string out sessions for several years, while listening to her tell you how she dealt with her daughter on a problem OR how she has told her group "I'm the boss and that's why! ". Then she's your gal.
It only took me 2.5 years to realize that her best advice was, "I'm going on vacation, so you won't see me next week."
I have found a therapist that actually has my best interests and not spinning yarns about what she did in the past or looking at texts during sessions.